If you are reading this, then I am pretty sure that you are looking for ways on how to understand your husband and learn what really makes him tick. Believe it or not, neuroscience plays a big part in helping women understand men and how they function or better relate to people. Or better yet How Neuroscience can help in change your husband to be the better person that he is.
What really is Neuroscience?
It is the study of the nervous system, seeking ways to understand the human thoughts, behaviors, emotions. The more complex area of the this field is the study of the brain, spinal cord, networks of sensory nerve cells, how they communicate and interrelate with each other as well as go deeper on each functional units that enables the nervous system to function properly.
I know you are already yawning by now with this narration and wondering of skipping to the lower part. But a better understanding of the system that works inside the mind of your husband is big help in getting the clearer picture on why he does those things and why he reacts to another.
Neuroscience in Making Decisions
Making decisions are a big deal for husbands most especially if it involves family and love ones. Neither just buying a new lawn mower or opting to hire to do the job, this decisions are made most based on emotions and feelings that are a intermingle results of past experiences, relational ideas and expectations. The brain is able to amass easily in formations within the brain to give instincts, gut feeling to easily identify choices that will bring greater results. Though there are certain situations that require serious deliberation, attention and analysis.
Neuroscience in Deciphering Emotions
Let’s admit it, we are not all very effective in determining every feeling we feel. There are certain points which we say that we are angry even though we are just plainly pissed of and frustrated over not having what we want. Neuroscience helps in expounding more on how we can better pin point the exact feeling and its definition to that feeling. Neither sadness nor happiness; anger or frustration and disillusionment of what we are aiming. So when you’re husband suddenly explodes over the leaking faucet, you very know that its anger caused by masculine insufficiency and not entirely your fault.
Neuroscience in bringing his romantic side
Men by nature are proven to be self-reliant and ego driven people. Most especially husbands after the chase of getting the girl are over. So how do you get him to be romantic again? Its simple, basically you just have to fill his head good feelings, positive experiences that he is happy with, feed his ego and mind. Trust me you will be astounded that you won’t have to remind him to fix the washing machine all over again. In fact, it has been proven that they may actually bring you back on date every night.
A very simple and practical approach; Its not that boring and bad actually if you open you’re mind to understanding this simple concepts of how a mind of a man works what more it is to your husband. You just may be surprised at how fast the transformation is.